I remember her words clearly.
My client was doing her best.
She was eating clean, taking the supplements, following the plan that the experts had laid out for her.
And yet, she didn’t even feel like herself anymore.
Also, her I could hear the guilt in her words.
And it was not just because she still had symptoms.
But because like for so many just like her, healing had started to feel like a job she couldn’t quit.
When Healing Feels Like a Full-Time Job
My client didn’t feel empowered—she felt exhausted.
Pause here for a moment. Have you ever felt like healing became your full-time job? What would you write if no one was watching?
And I remember feeling that way, too.
Like I was doing everything right—but somehow still failing.
I still remember was 2015.
I was doing my best to figure out what foods would be best for my daughter. To heal her gut and possibly bring her uncontrollable eczema under control. Without medications.
But I was exhausted.
I was following the Functional Medicine protocol perfectly. I was baking gluten free goodies like brownies, cakes, biscuits, pizza base (gluten free products was available in India at the time)
I was cultivating sourdough starter at home to make breads. And kefir. And sauerkraut.
And while I was doing it for my daughter, this constant striving was wearing me out.
No one talks about this part:
The burnout that comes not from your illness—but from constantly trying to fix it.
And it was only when I let go of trying to do everything at the same time and figure out what was really necessary that things started to shift.
That’s when something finally shifted.
Why Doing Everything “Right” Still Feels Wrong
We’ve been sold a version of healing that equates discipline with success.
Eat this, cut out that food.
Run the labs. Follow the protocol. Repeat.
And when it doesn’t work, what’s the advice?
Try harder. Be stricter. Push through.
But here’s the truth:
👉 Healing isn’t a performance. And your body isn’t a project.
💬 I'd love to hear from you: When did healing start to feel like something you had to perform? Leave a comment or hit reply. This is a space for honesty.
And the problem isn’t you, my friend.
It’s that you’ve been taught to chase healing like it’s a finish line—when it’s actually a relationship.
This is a relationship that requires your presence. It asks you to be flexible and adaptable. To adjust to your body’s changing requirements when necessary.
But mostly it asks that you trust yourself. Not blame yourself!
Sadly, most of us are wired to do just the reverse.
The Real Reason You're Stuck Isn’t What You Think
Inside the Body Wise approach, we don’t treat symptoms like enemies to be defeated. Or our bodies as adversaries to be fought with.
We treat symptoms as signals.
Messages.
And clues.
🎧 Want to explore this more deeply? In this week’s episode, I unpack why protocol fatigue happens—and what your body actually needs instead.
→ Listen to Episode 64: Protocol fatigue is real—Here’s what no one tells you
You see,
Your job isn’t to control your body into healing.
It’s to listen deeply—and respond wisely.
What to Try When You’re Done Trying So Hard
Here’s one thing you can try today:
🌀 The 72-Hour Protocol Detox
Pick one thing in your routine that feels forced or heavy.
Pause it—just for three days.
Each day, check in and journal:
What do I notice—physically, emotionally, energetically?
Do I feel relief or resistance?
What is my body trying to tell me beneath the protocol?
This isn’t surrender. It’s return.
It’s about coming back to your inner authority, paying attention to your own inner guidance system.
Because clarity doesn’t come from tracking everything.
It comes from trusting yourself again.
💌 Before You Go
Your next step
🌀 Tired of second-guessing your symptoms?
Before you try another protocol, test, or supplement…
📘 Grab my free Decode Your Symptoms Workbook—the exact 3-step tool I use with clients to spot hidden patterns and root causes (without burnout or endless Googling).
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